What happens after you order
- Straight awayYour order arrives from Etsy with your wish, exactly as you wrote it, and it goes to my table.
- The table is laidSalt, cloth and the objects of the The Standing Key, chosen for your wish.
- The working is castYour name is set, the working is spoken and sealed, and every pass is kept for the record.
- Your record arrivesThrough Etsy messages, and as a PDF for the longer strengths, usually the same day.
Who the Commitment Spell is for
For the relationship that needs to stop standing still. The feeling is already there; this working gives what has no name a place to stand.
- We act like a couple but they will not call it that.
- We have been together for years and nothing moves forward.
- I want them to choose me out loud, not just in private.
- I am waiting for a proposal that never comes.
How your ritual is made personal
This working is called The Standing Key. An old key is stood upright in rock salt beside a navy candle, then turned into a small lock that is closed. Key and lock stay together on the same plate: a question that no longer needs to be asked.
- Your questionI start with the question you are tired of asking, written in your own words. Whether it is about a label, moving in or marriage, the key is turned for that exact step and no other.
- The name paperI write your name and date of birth on a paper and their name beside it, on the same line. The paper is laid flat on the plate where the key and lock will rest.
- An old key in rock saltI stand an old key upright in a small mound of rock salt. Upright matters: a key lying down is only kept, but a key standing is ready to be used. The salt holds it steady.
- The navy candleA navy candle is lit beside the key. Navy is the colour of loyalty and settled things, of things that hold. I read your wish aloud as the flame rises.
- Turning the keyWhen the flame is steady I lift the key from the salt and turn it into a small lock, saying both names. I turn it slowly, once, the way a real decision is made.
- Closing the lockThe lock is closed. It is the moment a question becomes an answer, and I let the candle burn on beside it while I sit with what I sense.
- Key and lock togetherThe seal is that key and lock stay together on the same plate, never parted: a question that no longer needs to be asked. The written record then follows by email.
The six strengths
Every strength is cast personally and every one comes with a written record. What changes is how many nights the working is carried and how long the record runs.
| Strength | What you receive | Arrives | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| Standard Casting | One night: the old key stood upright in rock salt beside the navy candle, turned once in the lock, key and lock kept together. Record by message. | Record the same day | $4.90 |
| 3x Casting | Three nights: the key stood on three evenings before the turn is made, for a standstill measured in years rather than months. PDF record. | Record the same day | $11 |
| 7x Casting | Seven nights of standing with the turn made only on the seventh, and the record written as the standing steadies. | Record the same day | $26 |
| Fast Results | Standing and turning in one sitting with the navy candle burned to the end, and the record written and sealed the same hour. | Same hour | $43 |
| EXTREME Results | Seven nights with a second key stood for what comes after the decision; the longest reading of how the key held in the salt. | Same hour | $53 |
| ULTIMATE RESULTS | Everything in Extreme, the closed lock kept on the plate for a fortnight and checked nightly; recorded in twelve parts. | Same hour | $68 |
What I need from you
- Your full name and date of birth.
- Your partner's full name.
- The specific step you are hoping for: a label, living together, engagement or marriage.
- How long you have been together and where things stand.
Signs people notice afterwards
- Talk of the future that includes you by name.
- Being introduced differently to friends or family.
- Them raising the subject of commitment before you do.
- Practical steps together, such as shared plans or shared space.
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Frequently asked questions
Is there a spell to make him commit?
The Standing Key is made for a relationship where the feeling is real but the step never comes. It gives the bond somewhere to stand, and people often notice talk of the future returning.
Can a commitment spell lead to a proposal?
It can be shaped for that step. Write engagement or marriage as your wish and the key is turned for exactly that question.
Does a commitment spell work on a situationship?
Yes. A situationship is exactly the bond that has no name yet. The working is about giving it one, so it suits that stage well.
What does the key and lock mean in a commitment spell?
The standing key is readiness; closing it into a lock is the decision. Keeping them together on one plate means the question is settled and does not need to be asked again.
How is my commitment spell delivered?
Your written record reaches you through Etsy messages, and as a PDF for the longer strengths. Most records go out the same day the working is sealed.
